Thursday, May 1, 2008

Eating My Cake and Enjoying It




Ok three major things have recently happened in my life:
1) My bitch of a boss finally got fired!!! This is a big deal because it has been miserable for everyone at the job. I've been there for almost 2 yrs and this is big. I actually feel happy to come to work
2) I almost there in soldifying my career goals...just a few more steps to finalize everything
3) I realized that I've really matured in regards to romantic relationships.
The last one isnt that major but a conversation with a friend over the weekend made me realize that I have snagged a good black man. He may not be all there finacially but when are we as black woman going to stop looking at the financial side of everything.You will get no one thinking like that. I can take care of myself so I get pissed when this friend asks if he's bought me anything then proceeded to tell me I will see that he is not marriage material once we move in together. Keep in mind that this friend has never been in a real relationship...one that is serious at that. I hate when people try to give advice and they know ish about what they're talking about. I know what his financial situation is and why it is that way. We both know what's up and we're both working towards our goals together. So I've decided not to engage this friend in anything regarding my relationship again bc chick clearly doesnt have a clue.

Sorry I had to vent that out

Wednesday, April 23, 2008

BORE or Dom :)



Ok im taking a really long break from studying for finals...trying to figure how this imac works. I dont likey at all so far...making my eyes hurt. I will stick to windows thank ya very much. Anyway im bored as you can tell. I cant call the honey bc he is probably in hibernation stage of sleep. He's a vampire (a sexy one at that), my bestie is at work still, my mommy is at work still being the bosslady. I need to be doing some work but I cant...so freaking bored. Some crayons and a coloring book would do the trick right about now. do you know How long its been since i colored. Shit ages!!!! But then again I have a strong case of ADD and it would only substain for about 10 mintues. The reason why I cant play video games. The honey doesnt understand why I dont play. He believes that Ive been abused as a child because I've never played a video game. Yep yep yep.......ok bye bye

Think Pink, Loyal Floral


From left to right; Dress: $22.80
Forever 21, Tank top:$5.80 Forever 21, Pink tank top:$5.80 Forever 21, Multi floral print skirt: $118 Anthropologie, Pink floral skirt: $128 Anthropologie, All Shoes: Courtesy of GoJane

Initially I was just going to base this blog off of fashion just like my last one but I wanted to put a lil bit more of myself into this one. Meaning I will try to include my everyday going ons in here which recently includes making up my own words. Anyway back to my passion:fashion. Floral patterns are really coming into season this year; there are a lot of different patterns to fit everyone. It just all depends on taste some girles think their too old lady. I however think that they empitomize the romantic look. It just depends on which pringt you choose to pick. I love pink and I absolutely adore florals. I can't explian it I just that damm prissy. Lol but I will be rocking all three of these looks this summer.

It Feels Good to Be Loved By You



Taking a break from the finals and never ending studying and the possible decision of just saying "DAMM IT TO HELL" with school. I wanted to reflect on my talk with the future hubby this morning. I am currently worried that it is my destiny that my career will be a student. I'm trying to find a physical therapy program that will not take forfuckingever to finish and I really dont want to move because there's a issue with moving and that is will he come with me in the end. I know some of you out there will be like to hell with him be the independent wonder woman but it's hard to do when you found the one person who stands for everything you've never imagined you wanted. So were going to sit down over the weekend and make some plans. He's the nurturer in the relationship and he hates to see me stressed out. Which is a change for me because Im used to being the one who gives all. So I will update on this situation as it progresses. I'm just happen I'm not completely alone making this decision.